Yeah, you're not too popular because as much as we hear from you about the peaceful and tolerant side of Islam, we never see it, even from your own media sources. Here's an idea, stop kidnapping and executing every Western aid worker you can find who has come to help your poor, from countries who have never had anything to do with the conflicts in the Middle East. You imprison, torture and execute Christians yet complain that you aren't too popular in the West. Hypocritical much? You commit democide in many of your countries at almost every change of regime, raping and murdering women and children, hide weapons and terror cells in schools and hospitals, yet take every photo op you can to show injured civilians (some of whom, you maim yourselves) to stir up hatred among your own people. You redirect money from UN and Red Cross aid programs to line the pockets of your government officials and let your people starve and die of terrible, yet preventable, diseases. Your Sharia law states it's ok to gang-rape a 12 year old girl and then stone her for adultery because she didn't fight you off. Then to prosecute the rapists, you require four male witnesses (in "good standing") to the rape. If the case is dismissed, the rape victim gets publicly whipped with 80 lashes.
Qur'an (24:13) - "Why did they not bring four witnesses of it? But as they have not brought witnesses they are liars before Allah."
Perhaps we just don't understand your ways.
Whether the U.S. and allied forces should have been involved in wars in the Middle East is one thing, but two wrongs don't make a right. There's a reason the region has been in perpetual conflict for thousands of years, and it's nothing to do with oil, that wasn't in demand, or the United States, that didn't exist. You aren't a "religion of peace". History, your own history, makes a mockery of that suggestion.
Oh, and if your leaders must keep pushing this "holy war" with the West...